By Bill Muehlenberg - Used with permission.
Whenever I speak on the subject of abortion I always remind my listeners that
it is not enough to point the finger and simply say the obvious, that abortion
is wrong. We must also provide practical help for those being pushed into an
abortion.
I tell them that if a scared 15-year-old girl comes to them, pregnant and
alone, with no hope, what will they be doing about it? What will they offer her?
If her parents have kicked her out of the home and her boyfriend says ‘get an
abortion or I’m leaving,’ where does that leave her?
Simply telling her she should not have an abortion does little good at all.
Instead, churches and concerned groups should have pregnancy crisis centres as
part of their ministry, making a safe and comfortable place available for people
such as this. They can be looked after and loved as the baby develops, and upon
birth various alternatives can be examined, such as adoption or other
options.
This is the very practical and necessary work all believers should aim for,
be it in their churches or elsewhere. We must do all we can to help women such
as this. And of course such help has always been a part of the pro-life
movement. Indeed, back in 1994 an important book highlighting this very thing
appeared by Frederica Mathewes-Green.
Entitled Real Choices: Offering Practical, Life-Affirming Alternatives to
Abortion, it did just that. Based on extension surveys and interviews with
women considering abortion, she found that in “nearly every case, the abortion
was undertaken to fulfil a felt obligation to another person, a parent or
boyfriend. . . . The woman felt bound to please or protect some other person,
and abortion was the price she had to pay.”
In her very helpful book she offers various alternatives to abortion, and
shows us how we can make a real difference in the lives of these women. And as a
perfect illustration of this, an article in the Australian press has just
demonstrated such caring alternatives.
In a South Australian newspaper yesterday there appeared an article about a
great prolifer who lives near Adelaide and is making genuine contributions to
the lives of some of these women. Here is how the piece begins: “Robyn Grace is
spending thousands helping pregnant women on temporary visas keep their babies.
These pregnancies would otherwise be terminated.
“The 43-year-old Mt Barker resident is meeting the medical costs which the
women and their partners can’t afford because they are being allowed into the
country without private health insurance, have no access to Medicare and work in
low paying jobs. ‘These woman are falling pregnant and facing abortions because
the costs of having the baby are prohibitive,’ Mrs Grace said.
“She has funded five migrant births with the help of donations at a cost of
around $7500 each since 2009. ‘They wanted to keep their babies and I helped
out, but who knows how many others are out there in the same situation without
anyone to turn to.’
“Mrs Grace is married to Trevor Grace, a controversial anti-abortion
candidate at the last state election, and is currently helping Indian migrant
Parvezraza Sherasia, 31, and his wife Zaynabben, 33, to have their second child.
The Klemzig couple were going to terminate the unplanned pregnancy because they
could not afford to pay for medical costs to have the baby.
“Mr Sherasia, who is employed as a storeman under a three-year working visa,
said the couple went to a GP and explained their financial situation and were
told they could visit a clinic for a ‘medical termination’. ‘At first we thought
we would have to do it but my wife started to cry and that affected me,’ Mr
Sherasia said. He pays income tax and the Medicare levy, but will not receive
welfare benefits for his newborn under the temporary visa conditions.”
Now that is a real case of compassionate conservatism, of offering genuine
choice for pregnant women. This is the sort of sacrificial help we must offer
these women wherever possible. Not everyone will have the financial resources to
make such donations, but if they have a supportive church or group around them,
such funds might still become available.
And there are so many other ways we can offer real help here. Simply having
crisis pregnancy centres set up with volunteers willing to lend a listening ear
and a compassionate heart can go a long ways in this regard. The sky is really
the limit in terms of what we can be doing for these women, so many of whom are
being forced into having an abortion.
Most women would rather not have an abortion if they knew they had some
tangible support and assistance during this difficult period. Prolifers can and
should be offering such support. Well done to Robyn, Trevor and so many others
who are making a practical and life-affirming difference in the lives of so many
women.
And as if on cue, just as I was about to post this
article, I received an email about an upcoming adoption conference. See the
video here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5R349rjzvs&feature=player_embedded
And conference details can be found here: www.togetherforadoption.org/?page_id=10316
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